在巩俐与张艺谋的传奇爱情故事之后，她选择了黄和祥作为她的伴侣。在他们的婚姻生活中，巩俐和黄和祥都有着各自的职业追求，这使得他们相聚的时间变得异常稀少。黄和祥作为英美烟草公司亚太区总裁，在新加坡拥有着显赫的地位，而巩俐则是中国影坛的一颗璀璨明星。尽管他们维持了13年的婚姻，但最终并没有生育孩子。这不仅是因为两人之间缺乏共同生活的时间，更是一个关于责任、年龄以及未完成事业梦想的心理考量。

被誉为“最优雅的中国女人”，巩俐在人生的不同阶段选择了不同的道路。她曾经与张艺谋共度过一段充满艺术气息的情感时光，但由于无法接受他对女儿不断打电话的事实，他们 ultimately parted ways. Patting her back for being brave enough to walk away from a relationship that didn't serve her well, we can't help but wonder what could have been if they had stayed together.

After leaving Zhang Yimou, Pat Tang met and married Hong Kong businessman Wong Hung-chung in 1996. However, despite their long-term marriage of 13 years, the couple never had children. When asked about it by the media, Tang explained that she was hesitant to become a mother due to concerns over raising a child and pursuing her own dreams.

Now at an age where many would consider starting a family, Tang remains single and without children. Despite being one of China's most beloved actresses with international acclaim for her beauty and talent alike – it seems as though she has made peace with the choices she has made thus far in life. The world may continue to speculate on why Tang hasn't started a family yet; however, perhaps it's time we focus more on celebrating her remarkable career achievements rather than questioning every aspect of this extraordinary woman's personal life.