在安徽亳州，一对夫妻结婚不足半年就离婚了，女方主动将18.8万元的彩礼退还，并且连订婚时购买的猪肉和随礼都一并退回。男方表示，他并不觉得奇怪，因为女方一直是讲理的人，只不过连猪肉都退回来，这让他感到意外。

这件事给人一种“婚离两清”的感觉，让人感受到女方不想再有任何瓜葛。这也显示出她对那个男人失望透顶，要不然也不至于做到这种程度。网友评价说：“女方这个决绝的行为说明她是个特别识大体、品行过得去的人，男方错失了一个好老婆。”

很多网友支持女方这种做法，说用钱买断一切没什么不好，可以避免日后因为钱财问题产生矛盾。不亏不欠，是人与人之间最好的距离。还有网友认为，这种情况说明男方很差劲，让女方向他如此决绝，以至于宁愿把18.8万元彩礼退回来都要离婚，还把猪肉和随礼退回来了，这显示出女方对男方面极强的厌恶性。

有时候，果断离婚才是最佳选择，如果犹豫可能会苦自己的后半辈子。girl's parents must have loved her very much, as they allowed her to make the decision on her own. This kind of strong support from family is crucial for a woman's happiness.

This story reminded me of a similar incident in my village:

Lingfang dropped out of school early and went to work, just like many other girls in our village. She was the eldest child with two younger sisters and a brother. She took on many responsibilities from a young age, but eventually decided to get married at 18.

The couple met through a matchmaker and got married three months later. However, Lingfang returned home soon after saying she wanted to divorce due to disagreements over money matters with her husband.

Lingfang's father had taken all the 15 million yuan in bride price and did not give any back when his daughter divorced him son-in-law. The villagers knew about this but no one dared speak up against it because they were afraid of causing trouble within their community.

In contrast, my parents never asked for any bride price when we got married or gave us any dowry except for giving each girl 20 thousand yuan as marriage fund before we left home. They believed that education could change our fate and always supported us unconditionally.

My mother once said: "As long as you are happy, I am happy." She never complained about anything but always put our needs first.

I hope that more parents will truly care about their daughters' happiness and well-being rather than being swayed by large sums of money like bride prices or dowries.

Today's topic: Is having a strong motherly figure important in women's lives? Please leave your comments below.

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